Bereavement Today

A funeral is a unique event. Although no two are exactly alike, each is an experience of value, providing it meets the needs of those who mourn.

It should be remembered that democracy is valued in death - that the funeral of every person, famous or unknown, rich or poor, should be equally important and valuable for those who are left behind.

The funeral is one of the few personal events or ceremonies to which none are invited, but all should be welcome to come.

The funeral not only recognises that a death has occurred but more importantly that a life has been lived.

You will find that the funeral director will help you as much as possible at this very difficult and distressing time.

The actual funeral ceremony is the culmination of the work that has taken place since the death occurred. Although only one of the many functions of the funeral director, to many people the sight of a funeral cortege is probably the one most associated with funeral service.

It is significant to note that the word funeral is derived from the Latin 'funeralis' meaning a torchlight procession.

Funeral directors will be in attendance throughout the proceedings to ensure the smooth running of events. They will take on the role of master of ceremonies, carrying out the task of guiding, directing and overseeing the funeral.

As well as the funeral director, other members of staff will often also be present. These pallbearers should be attired in smart appropriate dress and should ensure professional dignified attendance and supervision throughout the funeral.

If you or any members of your family are unsure of what to do, tell your funeral director. This is what they are there for, to help and guide you through one of the hardest days of your life.